Single Men

The intention of "Bhakti Yoga" is to help

married men
single men
married women
single women

help others, including their husbands or in the case of a single woman, the husband they eventually settle on. In the case of a single man, the aim of this site is to help him settle happily in marriage so that he is then in a position to help others.

Helping others only happens with the will of God. Without God's will even a blade of grass will not move (ancient Indian saying). Therefore if your genuine desire is to help someone, you need to put aside preconceptions and start praying to God:

Prayer to God, OM

The core mantra which every religious aspirant, man or woman, can chant is known as the short form Gaytri Mantra:

1. OM bhuh, (OM, you are the world of men)

2. OM bhuvah, (OM, you are the world of space beyond this world)

3. OM suvahah, (OM, you are also the world of the Gods)

4. OM tat savitur varenyam, (OM, you are that divine being from which all is born)

5. bhargo devasya dhimahi (we meditate on your divine light)

6. dhiyo yo nah prachodayat (may this inspire our intellect).

My Painting of OM:

The Mother Goddess, Gayatridevi:

When praying to your personal deity or on Goddess Gayatri, you need to ask them to come into your heart energy centre

Helping those of you who have decided that your purpose in life is to serve others

Single Men

Well, you are one of the lucky ones who have decided that you want to help others in your life.

In the future environment which you need to prepare for (extreme weather, crime and shortages of necessities), it may seem that the most important thing a single man needs good friends. People who will look after his home and possessions while he is asleep or serching for food. This is not the case, there will be many people willing to perform this role.

All you need is good health. In my book ‘Human Being Self Analysis Kit’ I explain how you can measure your sexual, physical, emotional, love and mental health. You should not imagine that just because in the West ‘health’ is deemed synonymous with physical health that this is true. In many of my other books I set out how you can take steps to improve your health and also how important this is. In conditions where food quality is poor, the environment is being destroyed and human beings have been subject to Western medical experimentation and interference from birth, pain and ill-health will be prevalent. There are good reasons to believe that the future will be dramatically worse than the past, with no pain killers to help you.

As a single man today, you need to avoid injuring other living beings and particularly to become vegetarian soon. All other guidance is of limited value, by comparison. It is injuring others that in the new environment (post 2002) that creates the most pain in future life. Of all deaths, it is the painful protracted death that is most to be avoided. Hence you need to avoid giving this to other living beings soon.

Life is about love and happiness for you, the soul, and for the souls of all other nice people.

The service that you do to help others needs to become like a business for you. Imagine how much time, effort and attention a businessman spends thinking about his business and making it a success. You need to spend a corresponding amount of effort developing your business of life: the business of understanding what the people you have decided to help need to make them happy when they wake up each morning. The litmus test is do they wake up happy?

Much advice and if I may say unusual input into life's affairs are contained in my various books most of which have been translated into various languages. To access this information please click here: "Books".

Many of the books are available, in a variety of languages, for free download by visiting the web page 'Books'. They can also be purchased at regular bookstores.

My email address is also shown below.

Shyam Mehta