Married Men

The intention of "Bhakti Yoga" is to help

married men
single men
married women
single women

help others, including their husbands or in the case of a single woman, the husband they eventually settle on. In the case of a single man, the aim of this site is to help him settle happily in marriage so that he is then in a position to help others.

Helping others only happens with the will of God. Without God's will even a blade of grass will not move (ancient Indian saying). Therefore if your genuine desire is to help someone, you need to put aside preconceptions and start praying to God:

Prayer to God, OM

The core mantra which every religious aspirant, man or woman, can chant is known as the short form Gaytri Mantra:

1. OM bhuh, (OM, you are the world of men)

2. OM bhuvah, (OM, you are the world of space beyond this world)

3. OM suvahah, (OM, you are also the world of the Gods)

4. OM tat savitur varenyam, (OM, you are that divine being from which all is born)

5. bhargo devasya dhimahi (we meditate on your divine light)

6. dhiyo yo nah prachodayat (may this inspire our intellect).

My Painting of OM:

The Mother Goddess, Gayatridevi:

When praying to your personal deity or on Goddess Gayatri, you need to ask them to come into your heart energy centre

Helping those of you who have decided that your purpose in life is to serve others

Married Men

Well, you are one of the lucky ones who have decided that you want to help others in your life.

What you do not do and what you do is of course up to you. But, here are some thoughts that may help you:

One of my most important books is called ‘Future World’. It sets out my views on the rapidly deteriorating environment that you may face: with much crime, shortages of necessities and extreme weather conditions. These things are happenning because of the severe impact of Christianity on the world. Hence you need to prepare to face the future as best you can.
As a married man you have a family to look after and protect.
To look after a family in this environment, you do not need money. This will be taken away from you if you have it. Money is man-made. It is not a crime to take money or other modern treasured objects (cars, guns, washing machines).
To look after a family in this environment, you do not need a Western education or a pressured job. You need good health and good karma.
To protect a family in this environment, you do not need guns or big muscles. There will always be the army or police or criminal gangs with more muscle than you.

Life is about love and happiness for you, the soul, and for the souls of all other nice people.

The service that you do to help others or to help your husband needs to become like a business for you. Imagine how much time, effort and attention a businessman spends thinking about his business and making it a success. You need to spend a corresponding amount of effort developing your business of life: the business of understanding what the people you have decided to help need to make them happy when they wake up each morning. The litmus test is do they wake up happy?

Much advice and if I may say unusual input into life's affairs are contained in my various books most of which have been translated into various languages. To access this information please click here: "Books".

Many of the books are available, in a variety of languages, for free download by visiting the web page 'Books'. They can also be purchased at regular bookstores.

My email address is also shown below.

Shyam Mehta