Author's Comments

Men need to wake up and be real.  This is what the author believes.  Mostly, men drift through life focused on work and nothing much else.  They have a reverse 'Smiley' on their face.  Take a look at the next man you meet on the street and see which way his 'Smiley' is. When young maybe it is not too bad.  But the years ago by and all you do is make money and more money.  Or, in some cases, you do not have a job and you become miserable and more miserable.

Or, even worse, you get married.  For a couple of weeks you enjoy yourself.  For the first one month it is not too bad.  It goes downhill all the way for the next four years.  At the end of four years you are either separated or you do what the wife says and come home and say "yes dear".

My charity is about developing love and happiness for both men and women.  Today, this progress does not happen.  One becomes set in one's ways and loses charm, creativity and fun.

Your life is up to you.  You are a man.  It is not up to me to give you advice.  But, I share with you my own experiences and my own thoughts on many different topics of concretely how you might be able to break the chain of work, tiredness, and being miserable.  And the trouble is, because you are overworked and tired, you do not know what you are missing.  Or, you do not have a job and think that therefore it is inevitable to be unhappy.

A man needs a woman, and a woman needs a man.  But, it is not so simple.  Arguments develop.  Financial issues arise.  Practical things that really spoil the potential for happiness.  So, in this book I look at the practical things that you can do to develop love and happiness in your life.

Readers' Comments

A. This is a book at least 50 percent for women.  As a woman, I was a little surprised at how frank the author was about what clearly relate to many of his life experiences.  This book contains a wealth of ideas for how a man and a woman can be happy together.

Teacher, Michigan, U.S.A.

B. What I particularly like about your writing is that it springs from your direct experience and not from a theoretical framework. As such it comes across as fresh, vivid and unpretentious. Not everyone will agree with your point of view but that is only to be expected given how widely you range over the field of human experience.

Woman PhD Psychology Student from London University

The book is available from my publisher, eBooksLib, by clicking on the following link:

A Man's Guide to Developing Love and Happiness.

ISBN: 1-4121-5210-0